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  • Getting pregnant at 19 years old? please help?

    Hi everybody,

    I am very worried about something and I would like to have some advises. So, I am 19 years old(even if much more mature than other people of my age) and my boyfriend is 27. We are together for 1 year and a half now. I just started college in September and he is a math and science teacher in middle school for few years and is finishing his Master degree in May. In the beginning of our relationship (3-4 months later) I got pregnant.. It happened and I was very confused because at that time I just turned 18 and we were together for just few months plus I was scared of how my family would have reacted and scared because I thought I was too young. My boyfriend, already 26 years old and with a stable job, was actually happy about it and he wanted to keep it. I decided to keep it even tho I thought I was too young but I would have never got an abortion of my own kid. After few weeks of being pregnant, something was wrong and I discovered it was an ectopic pregnancy so I got a urgent surgery and I lost my baby. That experience made my boyfriend and I very sad and for few months, that was the only thing I thought about.. now, 1 year after that bad experience, I am still with my boyfriend and we are in a very stable relationship. We are moving together and we love each other so much.. we always talk about our plans of getting married, having kids etc.. during this time, I had a very big desire of having a baby, but I wanted to wait because I understood that maybe was not my time, so I got over it.. and in the last few months I wasn't thinking about it as much anymore.. The other day, my boyfriend told me that he wants a kid.. that he is already 27 and he thinks he has a good job to support the baby and we are in a very stable relationship.. and he is just waiting for me to be ready! Of course I was so happy to hear that.. and I told him to try!! so since I am in birth control, I am planning to finish this box of pills for this month, and than leave them to try to get pregnant again. Since we decided to try again(almost 1 week ago) I have been thinking about how our life will be with our kid.. and I am scared about few things.. i am scared about having an other ectopic pregnancy and so be sad again and depressed one more time, i am scared about how my family would react to it since it's the second time (obviously i will not tell them it was planned), and i am also scared about not being able to create my future, study and so to support and give everything my child needs. I really would love to have a baby, and I know I will be the best mommy in the world and I will not miss my life that I have now because I already partied a lot and since few years i am not interested about partying, going out with friends etc etc.. i actually hate that life now, i don't even have friends anymore and the only thing that I love to do is being with my bf.. even just home! so it's not the lack of the "party life" that scares me.. but just that maybe i will not finish college and i will not have a good job and my kid will not have the right financially support from my side.. even if my bf has a stable job.. I do have some money on the side.. like 2000.. but I am scared that I will not give him the best of me even tho I want this baby with all my heart.. and if it's an other ectopic pregnancy? i don't even want to think about it.. i would be so sad! Any suggestion? Pleas just serious answers..

    PS: my boyfriend and I are going to get married in max a couple of years anyway..either with kids or not, so our relationship is 100% stable. we are meant to be together.

    6 risposteTrying to Conceive7 anni fa
  • Pregnancy at 19 years old? Please help..?

    Hi everybody,

    I am very worried about something and I would like to have some advises. So, I am 19 years old(even if much more mature than other people of my age) and my boyfriend is 27. We are together for 1 year and a half now. I just started college in September and he is a math and science teacher in middle school for few years and is finishing his Master degree in May. In the beginning of our relationship (3-4 months later) I got pregnant.. It happened and I was very confused because at that time I just turned 18 and we were together for just few months plus I was scared of how my family would have reacted and scared because I thought I was too young. My boyfriend, already 26 years old and with a stable job, was actually happy about it and he wanted to keep it. I decided to keep it even tho I thought I was too young but I would have never got an abortion of my own kid. After few weeks of being pregnant, something was wrong and I discovered it was an ectopic pregnancy so I got a urgent surgery and I lost my baby. That experience made my boyfriend and I very sad and for few months, that was the only thing I thought about.. now, 1 year after that bad experience, I am still with my boyfriend and we are in a very stable relationship. We are moving together and we love each other so much.. we always talk about our plans of getting married, having kids etc.. during this time, I had a very big desire of having a baby, but I wanted to wait because I understood that maybe was not my time, so I got over it.. and in the last few months I wasn't thinking about it as much anymore.. The other day, my boyfriend told me that he wants a kid.. that he is already 27 and he thinks he has a good job to support the baby and we are in a very stable relationship.. and he is just waiting for me to be ready! Of course I was so happy to hear that.. and I told him to try!! so since I am in birth control, I am planning to finish this box of pills for this month, and than leave them to try to get pregnant again. Since we decided to try again(almost 1 week ago) I have been thinking about how our life will be with our kid.. and I am scared about few things.. i am scared about having an other ectopic pregnancy and so be sad again and depressed one more time, i am scared about how my family would react to it since it's the second time (obviously i will not tell them it was planned), and i am also scared about not being able to create my future, study and so to support and give everything my child needs. I really would love to have a baby, and I know I will be the best mommy in the world and I will not miss my life that I have now because I already partied a lot and since few years i am not interested about partying, going out with friends etc etc.. i actually hate that life now, i don't even have friends anymore and the only thing that I love to do is being with my bf.. even just home! so it's not the lack of the "party life" that scares me.. but just that maybe i will not finish college and i will not have a good job and my kid will not have the right financially support from my side.. even if my bf has a stable job.. I do have some money on the side.. like 2000.. but I am scared that I will not give him the best of me even tho I want this baby with all my heart.. and if it's an other ectopic pregnancy? i don't even want to think about it.. i would be so sad! Any suggestion? Pleas just serious answers..

    PS: my boyfriend and I are going to get married in max a couple of years anyway..either with kids or not, so our relationship is 100% stable. we are meant to be together.

    3 rispostePregnancy7 anni fa
  • What fashion career should I choose?

    Hello everybody,

    I am 19 years old and I started my 1st year of college in September. I am going to a community college because it was easier to get in since I live in the USA for just 2 years. I am italian. I want to transfer to go in a regular 4 years university and I would like to study FASHION. I have been looking on the internet to the different careers that fashion offers, but I am not an expert and I don't know what to choose. I don't want to study design cause I can't draw, but I was thinking about fashion merchandising, buyer,journalism... but i really don't know. I would like to work with important people maybe choosing clothes for big companies.. What do you guys suggest? Which career is the most interesting? or which one makes you get in a important place in the career? Thank you.

    1 rispostaOther - Careers & Employment7 anni fa
  • Ho fatto la colposcopia ieri ma qualcosa non va.. aiuto pleaseeee?

    Ciao a tutti.. Ieri ho fatto la colposcopia e a quanto ho capito al mia gine ha preso un bel pò di tessuto.. Oggi sono preoccupata perchè dopo 1 giorno da quando l ho fatta, ho abbondanti perdite di sangue rosso vivo e ho dolori come quelli mestruali. Volevo anche aggiungere che da quasi 3 mesi prendo la pillola, e le "mestruazioni" dovrebbero venire tra 3 giorni e mi sembra presto già da ora avere dolori premestruali ancora più strano visto che con la pillola non dovrei averne. voi che pensate? a qualcun altro è successo? aiutatemi pleaseee.. sono preoccupata!!

    1 rispostaSalute della donna8 anni fa
  • Come faccio a prevenire un altra gravidanza extrauterina?

    Ciao a tutti, ho 18 anni e nel mese di dicembre ho avuto un intervento chirurgico per gravidanza extrauterina. Il mio medico disse che è successo perché tempo fa ho avuto qualche infezione e ora le mie tube sono curve.. La mia paura più grande è che la mia prossima gravidanza sarà così di nuovo .. C'è qualcosa che posso fare per impedirlo? O qualche farmaco che posso prendere per aiutare le mie tube? Grazie

    2 risposteConcepimento e fecondazione8 anni fa
  • Come faccio a prevenire un altra gravidanza extrauterina?

    Ciao a tutti, ho 18 anni e nel mese di dicembre ho avuto un intervento chirurgico per gravidanza extrauterina. Il mio medico disse che è successo perché tempo fa ho avuto qualche infezione e ora le mie tube sono curve.. La mia paura più grande è che la mia prossima gravidanza sarà così di nuovo .. C'è qualcosa che posso fare per impedirlo? O qualche farmaco che posso prendere per aiutare le mie tube? Grazie.

    2 risposteGravidanza8 anni fa
  • How do I prevent an other ectopic pregnancy?

    Hi everybody,

    I'm 18 and in December I had a surgery cause I had a ectopic pregnancy. My doctor told me that happened because time ago I had some infection and now my tubes are curve.. Now my biggest fear is that my next pregnancy will be like that again.. There is something i can do to prevent it? Or some medication that i can take to help my tubes? Thank you.

    1 rispostaTrying to Conceive8 anni fa
  • How do I prevent an other ectopic pregnancy?

    Hi everybody,

    I'm 18 and in December I had a surgery cause I had a ectopic pregnancy. My doctor told me that happened because time ago I had some infection and now my tubes are curve.. Now my biggest fear is that my next pregnancy will be like that again.. There is something i can do to prevent it? Or some medication that i can take to help my tubes? Thank you.

    2 rispostePregnancy8 anni fa
  • Spanish or english nickname pleaseeeee?10 points to the best..?

    Hello everybody.. i'm a girl and i need a spanish nickname to use on facebook but i don't want anything sweet,. I need a "aggressive" one, cool.. There is a friend of mine that has "CABEZA DEL CUERPO" as nickname and i really like it but i can't use one same as her but i wanted something similar. Can you guys help me? Thank you! :) I appreciate that..

    2 risposteFacebook8 anni fa
  • Spanish or english nickname pleaseeeee?10 points to the best..?

    Hello everybody.. i'm a girl and i need a spanish or english nickname to use on facebook but i don't want anything sweet,. I need a "aggressive" one, cool.. There is a friend of mine that has "CABEZA DEL CUERPO" as nickname and i really like it but i can't use one same as her but i wanted something similar. Can you guys help me? Thank you! :) I appreciate that..

    4 risposteLanguages8 anni fa
  • Spanish nickname pleaseeeee?

    Hello everybody.. i'm a girl and i need a spanish nickname to use on facebook but i don't want anything sweet,. I need a "aggressive" one, cool.. There is a friend of mine that has "CABEZA DEL CUERPO" as nickname and i really like it but i can't use one same as her but i wanted something similar. Can you guys help me? Thank you! :) I appreciate that..

    3 risposteFacebook8 anni fa
  • Spanish nickname pleaseeeee?

    Hello everybody.. i'm a girl and i need a spanish nickname to use on facebook but i don't want anything sweet,. I need a "aggressive" one, cool.. There is a friend of mine that has "CABEZA DEL CUERPO" as nickname and i really like it but i can't use one same as her but i wanted something similar. Can you guys help me? Thank you! :) I appreciate that..

    2 risposteLanguages8 anni fa
  • Soprannome spagnolooo? aiutooo...?

    Ciao a tutti..sono una ragazza e mi serve un soprannome spagnolo da usare su facebook ma non dolce, me ne serve uno "aggressivo".. cool diciamo. C'è una mia amica che ne ha uno che mi piace davvero tanto che è "CAPEZA DEL CUERPO".. voglia una cosa simile.. mi potete aiutare? Grazie!!

    2 risposteFacebook8 anni fa
  • Soprannome spagnolooo? aiutooo...?

    Ciao a tutti..sono una ragazza e mi serve un soprannome spagnolo da usare su facebook ma non dolce, me ne serve uno "aggressivo".. cool diciamo. C'è una mia amica che ne ha uno che mi piace davvero tanto che è "CAPEZA DEL CUERPO".. voglia una cosa simile.. mi potete aiutare? Grazie!!

    4 risposteLingue8 anni fa
  • Incinta con la pillola?

    Ciao a tutti.. Prendo la pillola da quasi 3 settimane quindi è ancora l'inizio.. Ho deciso di prenderla perché circa 3 mesi fa sono rimasta incinta e ho subito un operazione per extra uterina, e siccome non voglio che si ripeta una cosa del genere di nuovo,ho optato per la pillola.. Come dicevo sono più o meno tre settimane che la prendo, e l'altro giorno(circa una settimana fa) il mio ragazzo è venuto dentro a metà.. Cioè che mentre stava venendo è uscito e quindi è arrivato solo un po' dentro.. In queste prime tre settimane di pillola, l'ho Presa tutti I giorni però siccome la prima settimana la stavo prendendo alle 8 di sera e non m andava bene come orario,ho cambiato e ho iniziato a prenderla alle 2. C'è la possibilità che rimanga incinta? Visto che ho anche cambiato l'orario? e poi ogni tanto ho perdite marroncine che però leggendo su internet penso siano normali..Grazie

    1 rispostaAdolescenza8 anni fa
  • Incinta con la pillola?

    Ciao a tutti.. Prendo la pillola da quasi 3 settimane quindi è ancora l'inizio.. Ho deciso di prenderla perché circa 3 mesi fa sono rimasta incinta e ho subito un operazione per extra uterina, e siccome non voglio che si ripeta una cosa del genere di nuovo,ho optato per la pillola.. Come dicevo sono più o meno tre settimane che la prendo, e l'altro giorno(circa una settimana fa) il mio ragazzo è venuto dentro a metà.. Cioè che mentre stava venendo è uscito e quindi è arrivato solo un po' dentro.. In queste prime tre settimane di pillola, l'ho Presa tutti I giorni però siccome la prima settimana la stavo prendendo alle 8 di sera e non m andava bene come orario,ho cambiato e ho iniziato a prenderla alle 2. C'è la possibilità che rimanga incinta? Visto che ho anche cambiato l'orario? e poi ogni tanto ho perdite marroncine che però leggendo su internet penso siano normali..Grazie

    1 rispostaGravidanza8 anni fa
  • Incinta con la pillola?

    Ciao a tutti.. Prendo la pillola da quasi 3 settimane quindi è ancora l'inizio.. Ho deciso di prenderla perché circa 3 mesi fa sono rimasta incinta e ho subito un operazione per extra uterina, e siccome non voglio che si ripeta una cosa del genere di nuovo,ho optato per la pillola.. Come dicevo sono più o meno tre settimane che la prendo, e l'altro giorno(circa una settimana fa) il mio ragazzo è venuto dentro a metà.. Cioè che mentre stava venendo è uscito e quindi è arrivato solo un po' dentro.. In queste prime tre settimane di pillola, l'ho Presa tutti I giorni però siccome la prima settimana la stavo prendendo alle 8 di sera e non m andava bene come orario,ho cambiato e ho iniziato a prenderla alle 2. C'è la possibilità che rimanga incinta? Visto che ho anche cambiato l'orario? Grazie

    2 risposteConcepimento e fecondazione8 anni fa
  • Incinta con la pillola?

    Ciao a tutti.. Prendo la pillola da quasi 3 settimane quindi è ancora l'inizio.. Ho deciso di prenderla perché circa 3 mesi fa sono rimasta incinta e ho subito un operazione per extra uterina, e siccome non voglio che si ripeta una cosa del genere di nuovo,ho optato per la pillola.. Come dicevo sono più o meno tre settimane che la prendo, e l'altro giorno(circa una settimana fa) il mio ragazzo è venuto dentro a metà.. Cioè che mentre stava venendo è uscito e quindi è arrivato solo un po' dentro.. C'è la possibilità che rimanga incinta? Grazie

    3 risposteConcepimento e fecondazione8 anni fa
  • LA FITNESS is crazy? Please help me..?

    Hi everybody,

    I'm writing this because i'm a club member of LA fitness in Clifton NJ and i have also training sessions. What happened is that i was not feeling good and yesterday i went to my doctor and he gave to me a note for the gym saying that i can't work out for 8 months. I went to the club and I gave to the manager the note saying that I wanted cancel my membership and my training. He told me that I couldn't cancel it cause the note didn't say that was a permanent injury and I needed to sent to the Corporate in CA a doctor's letter (and not a note) saying that I'm permanent injured. The Agreement that I signed in the beginning said that I have to be injured for at least 6 months.. So why I have to go again to the doctor to make him write that I'm permanent injured when is not true? And the contract doesn't request that? I don't understand. I have a lot of things to do because i work hard and I really don't have time for this things. Can you please help me? I really don't know what to do anymore. These people are crazy.. I don't understand why they make me do all this.. I will appreciate your help. Thank you!

    1 rispostaOther - Sports8 anni fa
  • LA FITNESS is crazy? They don't want to cancel my membership/training?

    Hi everybody,

    I'm writing this because i'm a club member of LA fitness in Clifton NJ and i have also training sessions. What happened is that i was not feeling good and yesterday i went to my doctor and he gave to me a note for the gym saying that i can't work out for 8 months. I went to the club and I gave to the manager the note saying that I wanted cancel my membership and my training. He told me that I couldn't cancel it cause the note didn't say that was a permanent injury and I needed to sent to the Corporate in CA a doctor's letter (and not a note) saying that I'm permanent injured. The Agreement that I signed in the beginning said that I have to be injured for at least 6 months.. So why I have to go again to the doctor to make him write that I'm permanent injured when is not true? And the contract doesn't request that? I don't understand. I have a lot of things to do because i work hard and I really don't have time for this things. Can you please help me? I really don't know what to do anymore. These people are crazy.. I don't understand why they make me do all this.. I will appreciate your help. Thank you!